Do you struggle to find joy during the Holiday season? This is supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year, but many of us struggle to find meaning, happiness, and peace during this time. Once the childlike wonder wears off and we see the world, unveiled as it is, it is so easy to focus on all the heartache and sadness that surrounds us and permeates our own lives.
Ever since my mom’s diagnosis with Ovarian cancer in 2015, I have understood the struggle for joy on a deeper level. On a recent trip to the ER with her, I grabbed my current WIP which happened to be this pillow cover with large letters screaming JOY that I couldn’t ignore. I struggled and prayed as I stitched and watched her laying uncomfortably in the hospital bed not knowing what was going on or what was going to happen next.
As Thanksgiving has past and we move into the full swing of the Hap-Happiest season of all, I have been reflecting on the importance of thankfulness in the finding of joy. You see, a joyful heart is a thankful heart. A heart lacking in gratitude will also be a heart lacking joy. In the US, we have a beautiful opportunity to align our hearts in Thankfulness as we move into the season of Joy.
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Thankfulness and Joy do not need to be saved for the holiday season. They can be practiced daily. In tragedy, it can be hard to find something to be thankful for – tragedy can be so overwhelming and all encompassing, but I guarantee there are reasons to give thanks.
It is easy for me to look at my situation, specifically with my mom, and see the negative: my mom is sick with an incurable disease, I have three small kids to take care of while trying to take care of my mom, I have a job to keep up with, a house that doesn’t stay clean…… I could go on.
What is there to be thankful for?
Well, I HAVE A MOM! I have a mom who I have had an incredible relationship with my whole life. Without medicine, my mom would have died two years ago but instead I have been given two more years with her. This may be our last holiday season, but it may not be. Instead of worrying about how much time we have left, I am working to focus on being thankful for the amazing time I have had with her.
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Since my mom lives with us, in this house that won’t stay clean, my three small kids get more time with their Mimi than they normally would. She can develop sweet relationships with them and they help keep her busy and happy. (Do I also need to state the obvious that we have a house and I have a job?)
My mom loves Jesus and I am confident of her eternity. I have nothing to fear in her death when that time comes. This confidence in Jesus is the ultimate source of thankfulness and joy. When all else fails and fades, we still have undeserved grace from Jesus that sustains us day to day.
What about you? What can you be thankful for this season? What can you focus on in thankfulness and wait for joy seep into those dry bones? (Prov 17:22)
(Who knew one pattern could lead to all of that?)
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Joy Christmas Crochet Pillow Cover
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2 skein Red Heart Super Saver in Charcoal
1 skein Red Heart Super Saver in Burgundy
1 skein Red Heart Super Saver in Cherry
Red Heart Super Saver 7 oz (198g), 364 yds (333 m)
Size J/6.0 mm crochet hook
Pillow 20″ x 20 ”